I am certain I didn't make myself clear about "revival". When speaking of revival I don't really ocnsider most of these emotional meetings as revivals. I was in fact talking about the true revival that burns in a man's heart for his first love. Which as you know Jonathan Edwards(one fo my favorites of all preachers) was a mighty contributor of.
It is the things you saw on your mission trip that lead men to false assurance. And you are so right that most of the "christian" world today is trying very hard to be not only in the world but of it also!