Thanks to everyone for the info. I was thinking about this and going over the discussion/debate I had this person. If anyone is interested, this is my background with this person. He is an immediate relative. We have debated this on and off over the years. He is a staunch freewill believer. However, in this recent discussion he was careful not to use the word "freewill". In fact he now says that word is not in the Bible. I was encouraged as I thought he was finally learning some truth. However, after discussing this for a while it turned into another debate. I now realize he still clings to freewill doctrine. He just removed "freewill" from his vocabulary and replaced it with "responsibility". That's why he will not directly answer my question - are man's will and man's responsibility synonymous? I tend to get a little frustrated when I debate him because he can be very bullheaded.

I want him to know the truth. Please pray for him.