I just wanted to say, I'm shocked too. If I were in your position, I don't know that I would have it in me to approach a pastor or elder about the situation, and as hard as it might be, I'd like to think I would leave the church in protest. That's what I'd like to think, but that's a hypothetical situation because it hasn't happened to me, yet. But I did want to offer my support and agreement that the entire situation seems shocking and unchristian. God bless you in these trying times.

-Brother Luke