Donations for the month of July


We have received a total of $0 in donations towards our goal of $175.


Don't want to use PayPal? Go HERE


Search

Member Spotlight
Johan
Johan
South Africa
Posts: 321
Joined: October 2006
Show All Member Profiles 
Forum Statistics
Forums30
Topics6,650
Posts51,275
Members928
Most Online373
Mar 5th, 2017
Top Posters(All Time)
Pilgrim 13,469
Tom 3,480
chestnutmare 2,916
J_Edwards 2,615
Wes 1,856
John_C 1,762
RJ_ 1,582
MarieP 1,578
gotribe 1,060
Top Posters(30 Days)
Pilgrim 37
Tom 31
John_C 5
Johan 1
Recent Posts
Starting Out
by Pilgrim. Tue Jul 17, 2018 5:58 PM
Apologetics
by Pilgrim. Tue Jul 17, 2018 6:55 AM
Learning Presuppositional Apologetics
by Tom. Mon Jul 16, 2018 5:14 PM
The PCA's Slide Into the Homosexual Abyss Accelerates
by ReformedDisciple. Mon Jul 16, 2018 3:50 PM
Conspiracy?
by ReformedDisciple. Thu Jul 12, 2018 11:32 AM
AN EARNEST PLEA TO SUPPORT THE HIGHWAY
by Movinforward86. Mon Jul 09, 2018 1:40 PM
Previous Thread
Next Thread
Print Thread
Rate Thread
Hop To
Page 2 of 3 1 2 3
Re: Female deacons? [Re: James] #3159
Thu May 22, 2003 8:23 AM
Thu May 22, 2003 8:23 AM
Joined: Dec 2001
Posts: 2,615
USA
J_Edwards Offline
Needs to get a Life
J_Edwards  Offline
Needs to get a Life
Joined: Dec 2001
Posts: 2,615
USA
After reading some of you reply here I think I see what some of the issue is.

In the PCA I belong to we do it like this:

We have elders over different divisions of the Church:
    A. Elder of Church Grounds (male):
      under him are deacons (male) that assist:
        1. Deacon of External Church Grounds
        2. Deacon of Internal Church Grounds, etc.
          under each of these may be committees:
            i.e. Internal Church Grounds

            a. Church Opening Committee which organizes the Sunday morning building preparations---air conditioning, lighting, et. al.
            b. Usher Committee
            c. Hospitality Committee (no men), headed by a woman, who answers to a deacon, who thus answers to the elder.
          Thus, far from the notion that woman do not serve in the church or have no decision making power therein, they do, but they do biblically. The do not usurp authority over the man and are in biblical subjection.


Reformed and Always Reforming,
Re: Female deacons? [Re: James] #3160
Thu May 22, 2003 8:26 AM
Thu May 22, 2003 8:26 AM
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 13,469
NH, USA
Pilgrim Offline

Head Honcho
Pilgrim  Offline

Head Honcho
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 13,469
NH, USA
James,

Well, my last comment will have to be: "I'll be anxiously awaiting to see this woman deacon on "Ripley's Believe it or Not" as the only woman in the world who is the husband of one wife!" wink

In His Grace,


[Linked Image]

simul iustus et peccator

[Linked Image]
Re: Female deacons? [Re: J_Edwards] #3161
Thu May 22, 2003 8:29 AM
Thu May 22, 2003 8:29 AM
Joined: Sep 2001
Posts: 148
Sawbridgeworth, Hertfordshire
James Offline OP
Addict
James  Offline OP
Addict
Joined: Sep 2001
Posts: 148
Sawbridgeworth, Hertfordshire
Thanks for that helpful diagram. I guess we have

Congregation

Pastor

Deacons

Property cttee And I guess they are answerable to the trustees too. We are planning to make the deacons trustees. The minster can't, at present, be a trustee and receive a salary under English charity law
Missionary cttee
Sunday school (I don't even think a deacon is on this one)

Congregation (Hey, isn't that circular? Yes it is, but I never said I was a congregationalist!)

Re: Female deacons? [Re: Pilgrim] #3162
Thu May 22, 2003 11:20 AM
Thu May 22, 2003 11:20 AM
Joined: Dec 2001
Posts: 2,615
USA
J_Edwards Offline
Needs to get a Life
J_Edwards  Offline
Needs to get a Life
Joined: Dec 2001
Posts: 2,615
USA
That would be very difficult indeed! smile


Reformed and Always Reforming,
Re: Female deacons? [Re: James] #3163
Thu May 22, 2003 1:03 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 1:03 PM

A
Anonymous
Unregistered
Anonymous
Unregistered
A


May I ask why if something doesn't sit well with the Word of God it would be acceptable to you? I would think that just the very thought of something not sitting well with the very breath of God would have you running like Joseph away from Potiphar's wife.

Re: Female deacons? #3164
Thu May 22, 2003 1:08 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 1:08 PM
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 421
South Dakota
li0scc0 Offline
Addict
li0scc0  Offline
Addict
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 421
South Dakota
Linda,
I may be wrong, but I believe he is saying that he does not like the situation at his church, but there are no "better" choices. In other words, although this practice is not Biblical, the essential teachings of the church are solid.

Steve


Grace is not common.
Re: Female deacons? [Re: li0scc0] #3165
Thu May 22, 2003 1:11 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 1:11 PM

A
Anonymous
Unregistered
Anonymous
Unregistered
A


Well thanks for answering for him. I think this is a very important aspect of any church body, and if this deaconess truly has authority over any man in the congregation then would you say that the essential teachings of the church are solid.

Re: Female deacons? [Re: li0scc0] #3166
Thu May 22, 2003 1:14 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 1:14 PM
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 13,469
NH, USA
Pilgrim Offline

Head Honcho
Pilgrim  Offline

Head Honcho
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 13,469
NH, USA
In reply to:
In other words, although this practice is not Biblical, the essential teachings of the church are solid.

Yet, despite James' rejection of the practice of allowing women to serve as Deacons, he has agreed to serve side-by-side with a woman who has been serving as a Deacon? Now I'm confused.



[Linked Image]

simul iustus et peccator

[Linked Image]
Re: Female deacons? [Re: James] #3167
Thu May 22, 2003 1:14 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 1:14 PM

A
Anonymous
Unregistered
Anonymous
Unregistered
A


Are you speaking of Redeemer in NY where Tim Keller is the pastor?

Re: Female deacons? [Re: Pilgrim] #3168
Thu May 22, 2003 1:22 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 1:22 PM
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 421
South Dakota
li0scc0 Offline
Addict
li0scc0  Offline
Addict
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 421
South Dakota
Agreed! It is one thing to stay at the church, and wholly another to support the practice by serving alongside.
Steve


Grace is not common.
Re: Female deacons? #3169
Thu May 22, 2003 1:39 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 1:39 PM
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 421
South Dakota
li0scc0 Offline
Addict
li0scc0  Offline
Addict
Joined: Dec 2002
Posts: 421
South Dakota
Quote
"Well thanks for answering for him."

I'm not sure I answered FOR him laugh

"I think this is a very important aspect of any church body, and if this deaconess truly has authority over any man in the congregation then would you say that the essential teachings of the church are solid. "

An excellent point. I have certainly heard those in favor of women deacons use Phoebe from Romans 16:1 (where the word is the same as that in 1 Tim 3:12). Interestingly enough, Darby and Young (YLT) translate both verses with the same word (minister). Although the case has been made that Phoebe was a deacon, it is difficult to reconcile with 1 Tim 3:12 (it would have been tough for Phoebe to be a very good husband).

Is a church going against the Scripture on this point by allowing women deacons who have authority over men? Absolutely.

Here is my question....Should a person leave such a church? I will open that question up for debate.

My $.02....personally I WOULD leave such a church, as I believe that any church/denomination that allows such a practice is well on its way toward theological liberalism.

Others?

Blessings,
Steve


Grace is not common.
Re: Female deacons? #3170
Thu May 22, 2003 1:42 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 1:42 PM
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 13,469
NH, USA
Pilgrim Offline

Head Honcho
Pilgrim  Offline

Head Honcho
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 13,469
NH, USA
In reply to:
if this deaconess truly has authority over any man in the congregation . . .

Linda,

This is the "loophole" which has opened the door to allowing women to serve in the Eldership and the Deaconate. When one allows the debate to be shifted to the pragmatic, i.e. issues as "authority", then one totally circumvents the CLEAR teaching concerning the QUALIFICATIONS for these two Christ-ordained OFFICES. Personally, I couldn't care less if a woman is said to have authority or in the case of those who object to the historical/traditional view, no authority over a man and/or congregation, the qualifications for the office must be met. One of those qualifications is that "a MAN be the husband of one wife. In both of the major passages which speak of these two offices (1Tim 3:1-13; Titus 5-9), the pronoun he is used throughout. That Paul enjoins and allows only men to serve as Elders and Deacons is incontrovertible.

If a church desires to have a woman who has NO AUTHORITY to do various services within the body, then that is perfectly acceptable. However, they are not allowed to be designated as Deacons.

A challenge was put forth to all who reject the biblical teaching concerning the qualifications for Elder and Deacon which has yet to be sufficiently answered. You can read it here: An Open Letter

For a thorough study on the issue see here: http://www.the-highway.com/OPC_women.html

In His Grace,



[Linked Image]

simul iustus et peccator

[Linked Image]
Re: Female deacons? [Re: li0scc0] #3171
Thu May 22, 2003 1:48 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 1:48 PM

A
Anonymous
Unregistered
Anonymous
Unregistered
A


thanks for the info. I too have heard about Phoebe.

Re: Female deacons? [Re: Pilgrim] #3172
Thu May 22, 2003 1:55 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 1:55 PM

A
Anonymous
Unregistered
Anonymous
Unregistered
A


Pilgrim,
I know exactly what you are saying about the qualifications for Elder and Deacon. While I may be wrong, I do think it matters if a woman is placed in a position of authority over a man in the areas of leadership in the church. You are much more schooled than I am, so I am sure what you say is correct. I don't believe they should be deacons either. Thanks for the info, I will read it. I will ask though, does "husband of one wife" mean you cannot be divorced? Obviously this wasn't telling them that deacons and elders could have only one wife, while the rest of us could have several spouses!

Abiding in him,
Linda

Re: Female deacons? #3173
Thu May 22, 2003 2:37 PM
Thu May 22, 2003 2:37 PM
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 13,469
NH, USA
Pilgrim Offline

Head Honcho
Pilgrim  Offline

Head Honcho
Joined: Apr 2001
Posts: 13,469
NH, USA
Linda,

Perhaps I didn't word things well enough! bingo "Authority" is an important matter, but not, IMHO when it is used as an argument for women in office. What I tried to convey is that aside from the issue of authority, the fundamental issue is who qualifies for the office rather than what the office entails. By allowing the authority issue to enter into the debate, it gives the opposition the opportunity to redefine what authority is, etc... rolleyes2
In reply to:
does "husband of one wife" mean you cannot be divorced?

This is another hotly debated subject. But I have concluded that Paul is forbidding practicing bigamists from office. The literal translation of the Greek is actually, "one wife's husband", which lends itself to the bigamy interpretation more than the issue of divorce. If one would want to make the text mean that no divorcees are qualified to serve, then to be consistent, it must also mean that no widowers are qualified either. grin

In His Grace,



[Linked Image]

simul iustus et peccator

[Linked Image]
Page 2 of 3 1 2 3

Who's Online Now
0 registered members (), 25 guests, and 104 spiders.
Key: Admin, Global Mod, Mod
Newest Members
Movinforward86, Micki Bowman, Nigel J, wischnotes, Dutch Michael
928 Registered Users
Shout Box
July
S M T W T F S
1 2 3 4 5 6 7
8 9 10 11 12 13 14
15 16 17 18 19 20 21
22 23 24 25 26 27 28
29 30 31
Today's Birthdays
No Birthdays
Popular Topics(Views)
778,833 Gospel truth
Page Time: 0.057s Queries: 16 (0.005s) Memory: 2.9776 MB (Peak: 3.2901 MB) Zlib enabled. Server Time: 2018-07-18 12:28:28 UTC