The Role of Elder - Wed Dec 09, 2020 12:03 AM
Recently, I learned that there are quite a few Reformed believers who believe that 1 Timothy chapter 3, makes it clear an elder needs to be married.
They do not believe there is an alternative if we are to read the text as written. Also, they go onto say that if the person was single, there would be no indication of whether they can manage their own household well.
Personally speaking, I believe the text is more concerned about “if” the person is married; rather than the meaning that he must be married…
I have been reading commentaries on this and so far I have not read any that deal directly with this particular issue. Other than one saying, Paul assumes he will be married, because in that society it was generally the case.
My pastor was not married until into his 40s and although I believe getting married made him a better and more understanding and patient pastor. Never the less, I believe as long as I have known him, he has been a pastor with a high view of Scripture that took his role as pastor seriously.
I would be interested in your understanding of the text.
Tom
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The saying is trustworthy: If anyone aspires to the office of overseer, he desires a noble task. 2 Therefore an overseer[a] must be above reproach, the husband of one wife,[b] sober-minded, self-controlled, respectable, hospitable, able to teach, 3 not a drunkard, not violent but gentle, not quarrelsome, not a lover of money. 4 He must manage his own household well, with all dignity keeping his children submissive, 5 for if someone does not know how to manage his own household, how will he care for God's church? 6 He must not be a recent convert, or he may become puffed up with conceit and fall into the condemnation of the devil. 7 Moreover, he must be well thought of by outsiders, so that he may not fall into disgrace, into a snare of the devil. ESV
They do not believe there is an alternative if we are to read the text as written. Also, they go onto say that if the person was single, there would be no indication of whether they can manage their own household well.
Personally speaking, I believe the text is more concerned about “if” the person is married; rather than the meaning that he must be married…
I have been reading commentaries on this and so far I have not read any that deal directly with this particular issue. Other than one saying, Paul assumes he will be married, because in that society it was generally the case.
My pastor was not married until into his 40s and although I believe getting married made him a better and more understanding and patient pastor. Never the less, I believe as long as I have known him, he has been a pastor with a high view of Scripture that took his role as pastor seriously.
I would be interested in your understanding of the text.
Tom