Most if not all your questionable verses have actually already been answered. Please see the articles here so you may make the best use of your limited on-line time:

Calvinism and the Reformed Faith

The Atonement

Of course we will be willing to discuss and answer all your questions, but as suggested it would be wise to limit them to one question at a time....

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