I don't think it was a matter of "offending" RefDoc. I think it was a matter of us noting how you disagree on some of the core doctrines of Calvinism.

Why do you call yourself a "modified Calvinist"? What parts of Calvinism have you not modified?

True godliness is a sincere feeling which loves God as Father as much as it fears and reverences Him as Lord, embraces His righteousness, and dreads offending Him worse than death~ Calvin