Your refusing to fill in the blanks tells me that you are afraid of the answers, to which you know deep down are true.
In a way, I can understand where you are coming from. It caused me a lot of anguish trying to find loop holes out of this, but in the end I realized that I needed to submit to what I knew to be true.
Looking back over that time, I now realize that my real problem was that I was looking at the matter through my own eyes, instead of my sovereign Lord's eyes.
When I realized this, it was like a light went on.