>>>4. ALL choices made by man, whether unregenerate or regenerate are "free", i.e., no one or any thing can force the human will, not even God.<<<

This is Arminian language. Of course God does not "violate" the will of man:

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CHAPTER III—Of God’s Eternal Decree

1. God from all eternity, did, by the most wise and holy counsel of His own will, freely, and unchangeably ordain whatsoever comes to pass: (Eph. 1:11, Rom. 11:33, Heb. 6:17, Rom. 9:15,18) yet so, as thereby neither is God the author of sin, (James 1:13,17, 1 John 1:5) nor is violence offered to the will of the creatures; nor is the liberty or contingency of second causes taken away, but rather established.


The Westminster Confession of Faith (Oak Harbor, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc., 1996).

However, that is not to say that God is not the cause of both election and reprobation. Clearly the WCF says that God does cause both election and reprobation. Calvin says the same thing.

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3. By the decree of God, for the manifestation of His glory, some men and angels (1 Tim. 5:21, Matt. 25:41) are predestinated unto everlasting life; and others foreordained to everlasting death. (Rom. 9:22–23, Eph. 1:5–6, Prov. 16:4) WCF, Chapter III:3

The Westminster Confession of Faith (Oak Harbor, WA: Logos Research Systems, Inc., 1996).

For "who has known the mind of the LORD that he may instruct Him?" But we have the mind of Christ. (1 Corinthians 2:16 NKJ)