In reply to:
My unsaved background as an outlaw biker with guns and drugs etc, etc , serves me well that I can WITNESS to hells angels, punks, winnos,prostitutes et al .

So you listen to the music you used to listen to, the same music your unsaved friends listen to? How about finding a Christian punk band that has God-exalting lyrics? Then your friends can ask you about Whom they are singing about.

In reply to:
Secular music causes ME as much trouble as spilt milk Joe. It has no detrimental effect on my Christian walk as it so obviously does you. YOU therefore should avoid it.

Now that just sounds relativistic...

True godliness is a sincere feeling which loves God as Father as much as it fears and reverences Him as Lord, embraces His righteousness, and dreads offending Him worse than death~ Calvin