Well, Southern and Midwestern are the most Calvinistic of the SBC seminaries. I would recommend either of them. Paige Patterson, president of Southwestern in Fort Worth, has spoken against Calvinism, so I would not go there. New Orleans, to my knowledge, does not have many Calvinists on faculty, and Golden Gate does not either (except for James White, who is an adjunct). I don't know as much about Southeastern in Wake Forest, NC. Danny Akin just left Southern to become President over there, but I don't think Akin is as Calvinistic as Mohler, and Patterson just left that seminary, so I don't know how Reformed it is.

Southern has some extension centers.

Hope this helps.

True godliness is a sincere feeling which loves God as Father as much as it fears and reverences Him as Lord, embraces His righteousness, and dreads offending Him worse than death~ Calvin