Dear John,

Would it be helpful to suggest a mediating position to your pastor, such as agreeing not to drink in situations when other PCJ members are around or likely to be around? This is an offer not to offend the weaker brother on this issue rather than legalistically binding you unnecessarily to a course of conduct in all situations and at all times.

On a less serious note, I wonder why churches have restrictions like this but don't require members to promise not to watch 18 (R) films, watch TV after 10pm or misfile tax returns, or a whole host of other things. By all means, require Christians not to get drunk, but to prevent any drink seems to strain at a gnat whilst a herd of camels wanders past.

Bucolically yours,

James.