Paul,

This is a good observation on your part. Not only is the relationship with the pastor/elders in the church an important thing both for them and the congregation but having close relationships with in the church is essential as well. The life we share in the body of Christ is not a private thing but should be shared.

In our experience my wife and I are very involved in many aspects of the church's life. I am a charter member of a church that is now going to celebrate its 50th anniversary. Because of the long standing relationship we have with the church we know the people well and they know us well. We not only visit with members in their homes and in ours but frequently with prayer meetings, Bible studies, committee work, and various other opportunities.

My daughter and her husband are the Young People leaders in our church and they love to come over to our house for their meetings, fun and games, as well as an occassional sleep over. These young people love my dear wife and many of them call her Momma Faye. She has gone on mission trips with them and she has become their mom away from home.


Wes

When I survey the wondrous cross on which the Prince of Glory died, my richest gain I count but loss and pour contempt on all my pride. - Isaac Watts