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AJC said:

Can you guys help me get motivated again because when I interact with other non-Reformed Christians I find myself either biting my tounge or simply nodding my head because I don't want to be rejected out of hand.

Don't get discouraged by those who reject Calvinism. This whole idea of a prevenient grace which removes human depravity and doesn't bring conviction which leads to repentance and faith is simply not supported by Scripture. As for Calvinism being offensive, well, Calvin himself took note, long ago, of the offensiveness of the truth that he taught, with reference specifically to total depravity.

Calvinism is offensive to men. It is offensive to proud man to hear that he is spiritually dead, totally devoid of anything pleasing to God, unable at all to save himself, nothing more than a child of wrath. But this is the judgment passed upon him in Calvinism - and in the Gospel. It is offensive to proud man to hear that salvation is exclusively God's free gift and sovereign, gracious work. But this is what Calvinism - and the Gospel - proclaim.

Defending Calvinism is simply a matter of defending the Gospel. Therefore, we do not defend it apologetically, or defensively, or even as if its fortunes were doubtful, dependent on our defense. As the truth of God, Calvinism stands, and will stand - victorious, invincible. God Himself maintains it; and God Himself sends it forth on an irresistible course of conquest throughout the world.


Wes

When I survey the wondrous cross on which the Prince of Glory died, my richest gain I count but loss and pour contempt on all my pride. - Isaac Watts