I would like to add something to this “unusual” discussion. When I was in high school I had a cousin that had some friends who were in the “process of changing” from female to male. When I met them, they were male from the waist up; the rest of the “change” was pending. In the mean time they were taking hormone therapy to make them male; deepen the voice, grow whiskers, bulk up. Both of those individuals had “partners,” though I’m not sure if they were married. There was some question if they could marry before the process was complete. However, there is no doubt that they were involved long before the process was started; they were two women.
Okay, with that said, I can’t help but think of [woman]’s daughter. The woman had been married once and had a daughter by her husband. The girl once posed the question when we were a group of kids together, “Do you think [woman/man] was a woman once?” The girl had picked up on a lot and vaguely remembered [woman/man] when she was still all woman and involved with her mother. It really disturbed the girl and I suspect to this day that she is emotionally and spiritually traumatized, as they had the nerve to join a church presenting themselves as “Mr. and Mrs.” Those who venture into this do not stop to consider all the ramifications.