You know Pil when ever I brought up that topic in church I unanimously got the cold shoulder from all the women present. Some of them (the short haired ones) said that Paul's comments reflected his cultural prejudices. Others (the long haired ones) said that the covering he meant was to be the long hair. So you never could win. But I am with you let men look like men and women look like women neither should wear fashions that make it hard to distinguish between the two. One of my pet peeves in my former church was (besides the drums on the stage) the fact that one of the musicians had double ear rings in both of his ears. When I confronted him on that he said we were to obey the New Testament (We're under grace not law) not the old (I quoted an Old Testament passage from the law). And his wife insisted that he looked "cute " in them. Makes my blood boil. Which is why I must say I do appreciate where I go now as the pastor emphasizes the fact that we are not to be like the world when it comes to dress as well as actions. Well enough said thanks for the good word.