Hi, I'm in Spain and after seeing so many self-called believers (from youngers to elders) in various evangelical churches for years, I'm persuaded that the question given to each of us (especially of nowadays!!) would be quite simple; Have you a honesty and sincerity in front of the words of our Master in John ch.17 vv.1-10 (especially v.6)? (if you say you have accepted the Scriptures as the Gog's) The word of the One who gave his Life for his Father and for you (1John:4:10)?
I think it's normal that we accept what explains J.Calvin to us, and there's no other choice if you really want to reconcile with our Creater who sent his beloved Son to this ugly world FOR ONES WHO COULD RECOGNISE HIS REALITY! And Paul has known it very well so he wrote Romans:11:11-24 (especially see the verse 22!), I suppose.
My conculsion is that; there is no salvation that is easy and human in the thoughts of our God otherwise never(!) he would sent his beloved Son to this world to leave him dead for us. Our God only wants our redeemed heart, repented and really renewed one (Ez:36:26), that is also baptized by his Son (Jn:1:33), because it's our God who had created us by his image... And there is so few people who could accept his such Exigency, and so others say "God is Love, God is Love...", and these are the ones who dislike the scriptural reality that Calvin have revealed.

Very sorry for my poor English, but I wish we could find the reality that our merciful God wants to let us know.

Personally I accept the Calvinistic Methodism that differs from Calivism or Methodism (of J.Weslay), and that seeks correctly a heart-felt relationship with our graceful God through the life and death manifested in this world of his beloved Son, our Intercessor.