You might not like my choice of the word "reluctantly". However I am at a loss to know of a better way to put it.
On an issue like this, when someone I respect does something that I strongly disagree with; I usually look into the matter further, mainly because I want to make certain I am not the one in error.
In this case, I am very disappointed to say that Mark Dever is in serious error, based on biblical evidence and I must bow to God’s word.
That is the reason I say reluctantly, because it saddens me.
There might be a better word to describe it, but I am not sure what that word is.

Tom