Pilgrim

I was just getting confirmation as to what I understood you to be saying. It is also my take is on the issue.

I was surprised at Kistemaker's example of what "count it all joy" meant. Though, I have to admit, that I have a hard time putting into words what "count it all joy" looks like practically speaking. Saying "praise the Lord" is not a good example, but I can't think of an expression that does justice to the matter.
Not all that long ago, a Bible study leader, said he had an experience where a well meaning Christian quoted Romans 8:28 to some hurting parents, who had a very sick child. He shared how he had to force himself not to rebuke the person soundly.
As I thought about his experience, I couldn't help but be somewhat surprised, especially since I personally have experienced serious sickness and nothing helped me more than other Christians coming beside me an encouraging me with Scripture passages such as Romans 8:28-29.
Everyone but me nodded in agreement with him except me. I had to force myself not to speak up. This is something that at times I haven’t done and got myself in trouble on a few occasions. scold
Thanks again
Tom