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Pilgrim said:

And just in case the thought ever crossed your mind that perhaps if I had ever had children and had to deal with the death of one or more, that my position would doubtless be different. Rest assured, that I have experienced both and my view is stronger because of it. I am no stranger to the joy of being a father. And I am no stranger to the agony of grieving over the death of a child; and even worse.

Dear Pilgrim.. I don't know what could be 'worse' in your mind, but I will leave your secrets to you. I am so sorry to hear this news.. it really does greive me. For you and your wife. There is really nothing that anyone can say to take away or dull a pain such as you have experienced.. so I'm not going to say anything. I am assuming this was not a recent event.. but it still must be in your thoughts an awful lot. It was courageous of you to reveal such a sensitive thing.. and I sure hope this topic doesn't open any wounds.

For what it's worth, I believe your child is in heaven enjoying the Lord Jesus.. and will forever.

Michele