Speratus,
Just to help you clear it up the SBC follows congregational government. The SBC is more of a cooperative of churches formed to leverage certain aspects (materials, financial accountability, missions, etc.) and not a governing body. Churches are completely autonomous and have the decision to adhere to different confessions. If your reference to confession is the 1689 LBC, it is a misconception that most recognize it but do not follow it to the letter. Most churches no longer recognize it, rather the 2000 Baptist Faith and Message. Some even prefer the 1963 BFM, but it is completely up to the local church. Directives passed at convention, unless administrative in nature, are non-binding to the local body and individual church member.

Not saying that I agree with what is happening in the SBC today, just giving a little background on the system. I've actually left the SBC in a one man revolt. (Plus I'm starting to agree with you paedos John_C)