Ron D,

God will not stop being God in order to conform to the Calvinist system. Before the foundation of the world, God will have all men to be saved. In the fulness of time, God died for all men. God offers His salvation to all.

The fact that He has done and is doing all this for all mankind in no way obligates Him to elect, impute the righteousness of Christ, or regenerate anyone. That He has chosen before the foundation of the world to save a remnant according the election of grace, impute the righteousness of Christ to them, and regenerate them is not owning to anything foreseen within them or any sense of obligation toward them but out of sheer mercy and grace.