I have to be honest.. I have never looked into the Bible for what it says about Marriage, Divorce, or Remarriage in the context that you guys are speaking of... But I have a question that I would like to ask..

If a person gets married, and for what ever reason; abuse, abandonment, adultery, ect were to divorce, they are asked not to remarry.. But what of their physical needs/desires? It seems as if by the standards the Bible has set, (my view here based ONLY ON what you guys have posted) the person would almost have to live a Monks life.. They would not be allowed sexual contact again, (this is really hard if that person were to want kids of their own, not adopted), or if they already have kids because they would not have a single solid mother or father figure. Sure if a mother or father were to date again, they might have that figure filled, but what of the opposite parent, they too would begin to date and now they have 2 moms and 2 dads so to speak. (I say 2 moms and dads even though they should not be married only to make a point of the divided roles)

How would you guys counsel a couple in this scenario? I ask because my wifes mom and dad just got divorced a few months ago, and they both want custody and so they have joint. And both of them are dating again seriously and exclusively and so my wifes younger brother and sister are stuck trying to hold to 4 different sets of rules and behaviors which creates confusion and anger..

I hope my question makes sense.. If not, let me know and I will try to reword it.

Thx.
Clint