Been there, done that... got the teeshirt! It's never an easy or pleasant thing when it becomes necessary to leave a church. And I always wrestle with the question of whether leaving would be biblical in my situation. It is certainly a last resort, and your husband is wise to hope for - and to work for - a "big enough tent" to include his family.

It's really important that the two of you be on the same page, especially now. Be careful that his hopes and your own are not in conflict, but let the Scripture and the Spirit arbitrate any differences.

Prayers for you and yours,
Robin