A "lordship relationship" requires the "doing of God's will". We need to know God's will before we can do it and we need to do God's will before we can become it. "My food," said Jesus, "is to do the will of him who sent me and to finish his work. (John 4:34) Anyone who lives on milk, being still an infant, is not acquainted with the teaching about righteousness. But solid food is for the mature, who by constant use have trained themselves to distinguish good from evil. (Heb 5:13-14)