Pilgrim

I never intended to give the impression that I was balking at the description given of the word 'attraction".
I also realize that the subject was same sex attraction and I tried to say I agree with you same sex attraction is sinful.

The other issue concerning opposite sex engagement I brought up probably should probably have its own thread and I am sorry I didn't make one.

What I was trying to comprehend in my mind was attraction in a Christian engaged couple.
I agree with you that lust starts in the heart as all sin does. I also believe that when lust occurs during an engagement it is sinful.
Yet, I can't seem to wrap my mind around the issue of how an engaged couple can't be "attracted" to each other.
Maybe the word "attracted" is not the word I should be using at this point, but I can't think of a better one.

Sorry, I have belabored this topic too long.

Tom