The Highway Forums General Discussion Open Forum Ack, help!

I will continue to pray for you, Nathan, especially that the Lord would provide you with an accountability partner. As a mom of three boys, I would encourage you to find someone here with whom you feel comfortable and can talk to, but don't neglect finding someone where you live with whom you can make yourself accountable, too. Here at the Highway you can get godly advice and scriptural counsel, but that can never take the place of a face to face relationship with someone close at hand. It is very important that whoever is counseling you is able to 1) be available to you in times of temptation and 2) be able to truly keep you accountable by "watching" your life as a shepherd watches over his sheep. One more thing that I would suggest, again as a mom; don't limit yourself to men who are only a certain age. Wisdom comes with age and God has a way of building men in wisdom and grace through trials and many life experiences.