Pilgrim
I will say that this particular pastor didn't seem to believe in "prevenient grace". I say that because from what I gather both from him and a friend of mine, who when he lived in Germany discovered the doctrines of grace under his teaching; believe that this grace is irresistible. It isn't a grace that can be rejected once it is given.

If I am able to get in touch with this pastor, I will definitely query him concerning his issue.
Let me know if you would like me to post my findings if and when I find out.
I guess it shouldn’t surprise me to hear strange teaching, even coming from those who claim to be Reformed.

Tom