Janean,
My heart goes out to you. I have been in your situation before and even though there were increasing numbers in the church and great plans for a new building, and everyone seemed so excited about "what the Lord was doing" I knew that something was very wrong and that what was going on was empty and was only bringing man the glory, not God. You are right to want to be in a church with sound teaching. Has your husband begun to see those things you have noticed that are wrong in your church? Do you think he is a Christian? Your situation is harder because your husband is one of the leaders in your church. May God give him understanding. I am still praying for you and your situation. It sounds very trying. May God give you His wisdom and guidance and encourage your heart.