Yes I am aware of that, but sometimes (depending on what the issue is) I know from experience that unless I am willing to end up divorced, with out a Church home etc... I am better off just keeping my mouth shut.

I am sorry if this sounds like I am taking the easy way out, but at this point I am not strong enough for that.
This doesn't mean I don't let people know what I believe on the issues, but I will not press the issue if their response is bad.
For instance I once told someone that I believed in predestination and after explaining what it meant. This person looked at me and in a loud voice said: "that is not my God!"
If this person was just a casual acquaintance, it would have been easier to take, but this person is someone close to me.

Tom