Paul, addresses the saints
Ephesians 1:1 (ASV) 1 Paul, an apostle of Christ Jesus through the will of God, to the saints that are at Ephesus, and the faithful in Christ Jesus:
And thus in chapter 2, he wrote: 3 Among whom also we all
had our conversation in times past in the lusts of our flesh, fulfilling the desires of the flesh and of the mind; and were by nature the children of wrath, even as others.
EVERYONE is by nature under the bondage of sin and were/are by nature children of wrath. What's not to understand here?
As I have made clear before more than once, there is a distinct difference between what God has decreed, which will infallibly come to pass and the application of that decree in time. But it seems quite obvious you either cannot comprehend this biblical truth... or you simply refuse to bow to that truth.
Lastly, differences do exist and when those differences are non-essential, they are allowed. But your espousing views which deal with the very fundamentals of the faith, e.g., the sovereign predestination and providence of God, justification (the imputed righteousness of Christ ONLY and AFTER faith embraces the person and work of Jesus Christ, even the wrath of God against ALL unconverted sinners, etc., etc. cannot be tolerated. Your attitude is also unwelcome here.