I am glad to see this thread. I can't agree more with Pilgrim and Wes and Kyle, and Kim...

I will only say to Elect, that if your sister truly is a Christian, and she marries this man.. she is only headed for great heartache. This situation is a sort of "crisis" in a sense, and it's good that counsel is being sought on it. Many people make rash and unwise decisions in a crisis such as this. I will pray for your sister and your family. I am so glad there is a new life coming!! Still, though.. it's not under ideal circumstances, I would warn your sister that in the long run, not marrying him would be better for everyone.

Just one other thing I would mention here. If it is at all possible, she may consider what she tells the father of the baby. Tooooo many times a woman will say she can't marry so and so because she's a christian and he's not. Then, voila.. the man all of a sudden goes to church for a few sundays, and is "saved." So the woman is happy.. and thinks her example has brought him to God! Such silliness. Then they get married, and they later find out that this conversion was all a ruse.

Oh dear.. if we would all follow God's commands things would be SO much easier eh?? But we ALL sin, and we all do such silly and stupid things. I'm not trying to belittle your sister or anyone here believe me. These are just my two cents..

Michele