I am not gonna debate the issue too much cuz I just wanted to throw out some thoughts that I had.

I can completely see your arguements. And they make perfect sense. I was actually throwing my thoughts out just because I was really having a hard time seeing how what I thought could be true. The thought process that only those infants who die in infancy are elect infants made sense...until this moment.

I've gone back and forth on this issue a lot, so I just don't know where I stand. Since the Bible is not clear on how God deals with infants, most of the time I leave it to Him. And I will continue to do so. And if the day comes where someone comes to me because their baby dies, I will trust that God will give me the words that will bring the person the most comfort at the time.