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It really does require a lot of prayer, discernment, and spiritual "guts" to do what the Bible says on this issue of reproof/forgiveness/repentance. It would really be a lot "easier" just to let things go, but then there would not be a full restoration of the relationship.

Yes, and I think that's exactly why it isn't being practiced either in churches today, or by individual beleivers. It is not easy, nor is it something we want to do, especially if you are a person who does not like confrontation or conflicts. But, it is the command and solution God has given us, and it is the only way to restore the relationship. I have seen Mt. 18 carried out all the way to full excommunication and was also priviledged to see that person come around to a full and complete repentance. What a blessing and glory to God it brought! I have also had to follow these steps in my own family (not immediate) and have not yet seen repentance there. It is not easy to do, particularly when it's someone in your family. It's almost like a divorce if there is no repentance. The other party in this case has completely cut me and my family off and in so many words told me I was disowned. cry

Last edited by Jacy; Fri Apr 24, 2009 5:30 PM.