Hello!!! I was assuming you meant unmarried children!! Why would you even ask if children are to obey their parents if they are married???<br><br>And excuse me, but I feel like you are looking for a loophole to teach children to disobey. As if they needed an help.<br>The real issue is having the other parent, regardless who is the "guilty" party, actually want to parent enough so that the children can obey.<br><br>The eternal, perfect God-man, who was creator of the world, obeyed a sinful mother and father. What other proof do you need?<br>If a father/mother who is guilty of a sin (which by the way, adultery nor divorce is the unpardonable sin)that in no way changes their position as father/mother. Just thank God, if there is a parent at all that would even suggest the child do something that he could obey. My experiene has been that most just want to be friends, and therefore the burden or joy of raising the children falls on just one parent.<br><br>