I too once held that position, but it is not who God is. His hatred revealed against man in the verses you posted, is hatred because of their actions (I will do a little more contemplation though). I must close down for today, but will continue the discussion later if you like.

Hisalone
Matt. 6:33 But seek ye first the kingdom of God, and his righteousness; and all these things shall be added unto you. KJV