William,

I guess I don't see how a belief in the well-meant offer would man that a preacher indiscriminately says "Christ died for you." Normally, I think they would say (at least my pastor does) that Christ died for sinners and that there is no sinner who comes to Christ that He will not receive. To me, this does not contradict particular redemption nor effectual calling nor total inability.

True godliness is a sincere feeling which loves God as Father as much as it fears and reverences Him as Lord, embraces His righteousness, and dreads offending Him worse than death~ Calvin