You need to 'read carefully' and prayerfully, and think about what I wrote. The translation quoted in the OP is presenting an erroneous rendering of malakos and arsenokoites. It, the ESV, represents the great number of modern, evangelical translations which I believe clearly distort God's word, if one takes the time to do some real study. After years studying theology from my bookshelves, 30 years ago I went online with Win95 and began to find the vast amount of biblical knowledge that can be found there in debate forums, at first found on Usenet. But, just as with health and medical questions, you need to weed out the 95% of weirdos and whacky types.

If you wish to question a point I made in these 3 large replies, I'll try to give you a respectful reply.