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Some questions to consider:

(1) Why will “the fruit of that election never be known by those who resist the conviction of the Holy Spirit”?

Because the fruit of that election is everlasting life in the new heavens and new earth. Those who reject Him will never know eternal life.

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(2) Why do they resist the Holy Spirit?

More accurately, why did God elect some and not all? Regeneration (the work of the Holy Spirit upon the elect) cannot be resisted by those who have been freed from spiritual death. Those who "resist" the outward call of the gospel do so because they cannot do otherwise, being slaves to sin (Romans 6-7).


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(3) Why does not the Holy Spirit show them the “T”?

Even the light of nature shows them "T." But those who are blinded simply cannot see it unless their eyes are supernaturally opened. Why doesn't God open everybody's eyes? The better question is, "Why does He show mercy to anyone at all" rather than "why doesn't He show mercy to everyone." If God was obligated to show mercy to everyone, then it couldn't be called mercy, could it? What we deserve is justice, not mercy. Those who receive His justice have no right to expect anything else.

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(4) Why is it impossible for them to be forgiven?

Not because it is beyond God's ability to forgive them, but because their hearts of stone are unable to repent and turn from sin to humble themselves. It is not that God cannot give forgiveness, but that they cannot accept forgiveness.

The new birth is from Above, not from within. That is the heart and soul of Calvinism.

-Robin