I can tell you that among Reformed Baptists Fred's position on the 2nd Commandment is probably the majority position.
I feel like the odd man out when it comes to the 2nd Commandment among Reformed Baptists.
Though I will say, I refuse to let this issue become one that separates me from my Reformed Baptist brothers and sisters.
Something that Albert Mohler said that I think is wise advice is: (from memory) "Let this issue be an in house debate among Christians, don't let it affect your witness to the world around you."